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Party in Your Panties – The Hottest Toys with Lovehoney’s Kim Card

Party in Your Panties – The Hottest Toys with Lovehoney’s Kim Card

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💋 *We’re back, baby!* Season 4 kicks off with a bang—literally—as we dive into the world of pleasure products with the fabulous **Kim Card** from **Lovehoney**! This episode is packed with laughs, lube, and next-level orgasms as we put some of Lovehoney’s hottest toys to the test.

🔥 **What’s inside this steamy episode?**  
- The new *Blend* toy (a.k.a. *Finish Her*), why it's a *game-changer* for blended orgasms, and how it rocked our worlds.  
- The science behind **Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology** and why it’s giving our clits the VIP treatment.  
- The spicy truth about **vibrating daisy gel** and how it adds a little *sparkle* to your nether regions.  
- How sex toys are designed—who’s giving feedback, how fat bodies factor into the equation, and why remote controls make everything better.  
- The future of sex tech, from **toys that talk to your favorite spicy websites** to the long-awaited return of longer-handled Womanizers.  

🎙️ **Our guest:** Kim Card, a 12-year veteran in the sex toy industry, shares insider secrets, what’s coming next from Lovehoney, and how she went from home decor to *slinging dildos* with passion.  

👉 **Don't miss this one if you love:** sex toys, pleasure hacks, body-safe materials, hilarious sex toy confessions, and learning what REALLY goes into designing the perfect orgasm machine.  

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🎧 Now, grab your favorite toy and tune in, because this episode is one for the *Big O* books!

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Chapters

00:00 - Big Sexy Chat Season 4

06:11 - Introducing New Sex Toy Innovations

14:51 - Next Generation Sex Toy Innovations

23:02 - Enhancing Womanizer Toys for Better Use

30:39 - New Sex Toy Innovations and Features

42:47 - Toy Cleaning and Storage Recommendations

48:12 - Destigmatizing Sex Toy Industry

52:05 - Healthy Sex Education and Toy Innovation

01:05:26 - Promoting Big Sexy Chat Platform

Transcript
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Welcome to Season 4 of Big Sexy Chit.

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That's right, we're back and we're kicking it off with a bang.

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Quite literally, this episode we're talking all things pleasure with the fabulous Kim Card from Love Honey.

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We got our hands on and other places some of their hottest new toys, and let's just say it's a full-on party in our panties over here.

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So buckle up, grab your favorite vibe and get ready for some seriously steamy, laugh-out-loud fun.

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Let's do this.

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Hi, welcome to Big Sexy Chat.

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I'm Crystal, I'm Murph.

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We're just two rad fatties sitting chewing the fat.

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Twice a month.

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we'll be chatting about current events hot topics sex, sex toys, fat politics, fat community cannabis, cbd you name it.

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We're going to talk about it.

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We are very excited to have you a part of our community.

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Welcome and enjoy Everybody.

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Welcome back to Big Sexy Chat.

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I'm so excited, but this is the very first episode of our season four.

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We did it.

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I am here today with my lovely co-hosts, murph and Ashley, who's joined us today because she has some opinions about these lovely sex toys that we got, and we have an extra special guest, kim Card from Love Honey Group.

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Thank you.

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Kim, you're so welcome and happy to be here.

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Cam Cart from Love Honey Group.

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Thank you, cam.

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You're so welcome and happy to be here.

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We're thrilled to have you and I am having a little party in my panties right now.

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What is called the Lust from Pure, that kind of y'all are selling and marketing this.

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It's so yummy, I like it.

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Everybody likes to party in their panties.

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It's like a little sparkle in your panties, just a little, yeah, a little zhuzh.

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Give it a little wake-up call when you need it.

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Oh, damn yeah.

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It's funny you say wake-up call because that's what I did this morning.

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I totally went on to wake up this morning.

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I was like, all right, let's go, let's do this, not as bad.

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For those of you who don't know what we're talking about.

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There's this little something called Woman Lust, and I use the Intense.

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It's like a vibrating orgasm gel for your clitoris, and it's made in Germany by the lovely folks at Pure, who I think you all heard me say this a million times I love their body glide, I love their lubes.

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So, yeah, thank you, kim.

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Thanks for letting us try this out.

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It's really nice.

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You are very welcome and I'm glad that you're enjoying it.

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And what a way to start a Sunday with a wake up call.

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Absolutely enjoying it.

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And what a way to start a Sunday with a wake up call.

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Heathens, all of you.

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Kim, tell us a little bit about you, how long you've been in the sex toy industry, what you're up to right now all that kind of fun stuff.

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So I have been in the sex toy industry for 12 years and it's not something that you wake up one day and be like, hey, I want to go work in the sex toy industry.

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Right, I was recruited and didn't really have any idea what I was getting into.

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What I discovered along the way is it is just kind of like widgets.

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You know, when you sell one thing, you sell another thing different industries and it's a.

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It's a beautiful thing and it's been fun because I've met an amazing group of people that it's like family.

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It's like, yes, it's work, but it's also spending time with people that I absolutely love, and you know what they say.

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When you love what you do every day, it's never really a job, it's really truly a passion, and I'm blessed to be part of it.

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So Kim, when you mentioned that you were recruited.

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How does one get recruited into the sex toy industry?

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Funny thing is that in a past career that I had, I worked for a kind of a home decorating rep group and that somebody that I worked with came and worked for Love Honey or, at the time, standard Innovation, and she recruited me and she gave me a phone call and I still remember to this day I was serving at Target, checking out, and she called me and she said hey, would you be interested in a job?

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And I said to her I don't think I could stand up in front of a group of people and say the word clitoris without completely blushing.

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And she said, kim, she's like I think you are judging and you're missing a great opportunity.

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So we asked that, I asked just the common interview, and if you ever feel uncomfortable then you can bow out.

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And that's what happened.

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Just out there slinging dildos.

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Slinging dildos, yeah, and so obviously I started and I went and I trained, and the next week I went to a show and the rest is history.

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Yes, and I got to meet Kim at one of the distributors and one of the distributors I still use called El Dorado in Colorado, and at the time they had these boot camps where they would have some they would invite I don't know who, how they decided who to invite, but we would go out there and then Kim and all kinds of other manufacturers were there to talk about their products, so we knew how to sell it.

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That's exactly how we met, and you made a lasting impression on me at that time, and that's why we have remained in contact over the years.

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Cool.

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Thanks, kim.

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That's awesome.

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So, yeah, I love all of your products so far everything.

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But back in the day, I did not love the original WeVibe because it just did not work for my body.

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But I love that your company's always innovating and always creating new versions and upgrading them and, yes, for me, for my body, it works so much better for me now.

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But, um, I want to start by saying how, the first time I ever tried a womanizer product yeah, it was in 2014, and I'm pretty sure molly said you have to try this.

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Molly from Holiday.

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Yeah, of course she did so she sent me one and I was like whatever, this is going to be more hype about another sex toy.

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You know, blah, blah, blah.

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Another version of the rabbit, another version of the whatever, another bullet.

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And then I took it home and I had this plan I lit some candles, I had like a good show movie on, I got all situated in my chair, I got tucked in.

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Let me try this now.

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That was like put it on bam.

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I was like whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Hang on.

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Now I didn't know what to expect because the womanizer the original one I tried had that sort of larger tip and it just suctioned onto my clitoris and then it vibrated at the same time and we'll go hey, y'all, this isall.

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This is not hype, this is not hype at all.

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Do you remember the first time you tried?

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one, kim, I do, and I actually did not have the opportunity to use one of the original womanizers because when our companies merged together, we were launching the new premium, which would have been the original premium one, and, yeah, I had a very similar experience to what you just described exactly it was just like what.

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And now I don't even like a toy without the suction arm.

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To be honest, I really want the suction all the time.

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It was a game changer in the industry when it came out Completely completely.

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I got all my employees on, all my friends on I go.

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You guys, I know you hear me talk about this shit all the time.

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This is like other world, next level epic.

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Okay, crystal, I remember at the time I was at an industry show, working for WeVibe, which quite honestly, was kind of all the buzz and the rage, and then Womanizer came out and I remember being like agreeing with Envy because everybody was talking about the Womanizer.

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And and I remember being like agreeing with Envy because everybody was talking about the Womanizer and I was like, but wait, what about us?

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So it's funny how the world's collided and now I get to sell both of those great brands.

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I'm curious how many different organizations or companies are under the umbrella of Love Honey, Because we've talked about WeVibe, we've talked about Womanizer.

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I think some of our folks may be curious of just like what does all this entail?

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It's a great question, and sometimes I actually have to count that because there are so many.

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It's like they were gremlins and all of a sudden they got water or light on them I can't remember which one and then they exploded, but it's.

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The main ones are Revive, which is going to be known for innovative shapes and deep, rumbly vibrations.

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We've got Womanizer, which is going to be pleasure air.

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We've got Pure, which Crystal mentioned, which is the amazing lube and clitoral stimulant from Germany.

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And then we've got Rump, which is going to be a little bit more of a I would say like a young kind of more of an entry-level price point fun, bright, beboppy, looks like the Gap t-shirts walls of t-shirts that I used to fold in the 90s on a wall in a store.

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And then we also have Arc Wave, which is a penis-centric line and kind of takes the technologies from both WeBite and Womanizers and rolls them into products that are great for penis owners, and right now there's not a lot happening in that brand so far, but this year is a big arc wave year, so I'm really excited for folks who have penises to be able to explore some really great products.

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And then we also have Happy Rabbit and Fifty Shades of Grey as well.

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Which Fifty Shades of Grey?

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It's never going away.

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It made an impact in the kiddos and the people who watched the movies and read the books.

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They're into it.

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I've seen those starter packs of the Fifty Shades of Grey.

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It's a great way to introduce somebody to BDSM-type toys.

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A soft way to wade in.

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Yeah, there was a lot of division in the industry and when the first 50 Shades of Gray stuff came out because of the consent stuff and it's really for vanilla people to kind of learn.

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But also I kept saying I understand y'all that I know there's elitism in the BDSM world.

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That's not how you do it.

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Here's the blah, blah, blah, all the housewives quotes and air quotes that I know my friends who used to hate sex.

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They're like oh my God, this book.

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I highlighted every page.

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I make my husband read it to me and they're like having sex again.

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So I'm like you know what?

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It's all good, let's let them enjoy it.

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Don't be so snobby.

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I agree, those of us who work in this industry can be A slightly judgmental and B snobby, get it.

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I'm like I'm a sex toy snob.

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Yeah, I consider myself an aficionado.

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I get a little.

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You know I'm too good for that it's a higher taste level.

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I would like to say yeah, I like that.

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That's how we.

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That's how we kind of were at fat con last year with certain people who were using the rabbit.

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The rest of us were like, oh honey, it's so cute.

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Yeah, bless your heart.

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Yeah so ladies, where would you like to start with these toys that, kim, let us try out?

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Have you all have both of you, did you?

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Both of you try the little?

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I know Ashley and I are having a party in our panties.

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What about you?

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Murph?

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Party in the panties.

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Yes, okay, yeah so magic ingredient in that is a little plant from Brazil called the Spilanthes acmilla, which its common name is vibrating daisy or electric daisy, and, if you like, google the history of it.

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Obviously indigenous folks in that area have been using that plant for things like tooth pain and injuries for many, many years.

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And so that's the Lampus Agmila got added to this fabulous little gel and you put it on your body and it feels like champagne bubbles or sparkles and really enhances the blood flow and wakes everything up, which I love.

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It can last for about 10 to 15 minutes, depending on your body.

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You can always reapply if you really want to enhance it.

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Add a little water to it like a little squirt, squirt and you're going to be like oh hello.

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But yeah, it's a great, great product and if you put it in your mouth it's going to create saliva.

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Yeah, you can put it on your nipples and the regular Lust has a little bit of essence added to it.

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That's got a little bit of a berry taste.

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The Intense has got a little bit of a citrus taste and I like to tell people the regular level of lust is the scale of one to 10, about a five to a six the intense crystal that you're rocking.

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That's a 10.5 to an 11.

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So that paired with any sort of a clitoral toy like you want to like, zhuzh up your play with your womanizer.

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Zhuzh up your toy, your play with your moxie from WeVibe zoos up your toy at your play with your moxie from we vibe.

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Yeah, I made that mistake.

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I tried, I used it right off the bat.

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I was like I was gonna let's just go level 20, so I so I just tried the intense because I'm like, how intense can it really be well, actually were you deep threading the gel I use the intense, just, you know, for my own little playtime.

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And then I used what I'm now affectionately calling the finisher, um, which which was the one that you sent us.

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I was the um murph, do you have it that way?

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The blend, yeah, so the finisher, because that's a street fighter.

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Yeah, because I put that on and I was like, oh, my god, I'm gonna need it.

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I need a cigarette, I don't even smoke.

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You need to need a cigarette.

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I don't even smoke.

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You need to order a pizza too.

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Yeah.

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I was like I don't know.

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I just burned like 3,000 calories in two seconds.

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I love that.

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Great womanizer experience Bam.

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I actually that was more intense for me, like that was okay, did you find like for me, with the first time I used the womanizer, I had to let myself have like about a half an hour of recovery time.

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Then I was able to since I knew it, I was able to not just go instantly and I was able to kind of step myself up a little bit.

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Then I was when I was ready.

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Then I let it, let it slide pacing is always yeah, I have a question for you.

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So we we were so fortunate last season of our podcast that you sent us a variety of different sex toys to try, and then this season, obviously, you've sent us a whole new series of sex toys to try.

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Um, so in the last you sent us this one, which Ashley called the USS Enterprise, as we think it looks, yeah yeah, exactly, it looks like the Enterprise it does.

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And then this season you sent us this one, and so they're very similar.

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I'm curious is this one, the blend, now replacing this one, or are they two?

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Okay, they're both going to be a different series.

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They're going to be a different series.

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Basically, what you've got is we've got a few people that the USS Enterprise intimidates because of the size of this internal arm.

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Also, sometimes people don't necessarily like the of the bulk of the head on this.

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So we made this slightly smaller, obviously, and it looks like it's got a shorter internal arm, but if you actually stretch it out it's about the same length, but it's much smaller.

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And you've got a slightly smaller kind of a tip on the end which isn't as intimidating to people.

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Also, power on the motor on this one.

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This has got a tango motor inside of it which is, like, you know, kick the tires, light the fires, let's go, which we know.

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Some people want a slightly, you know, less intense experience.

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So slightly less powerful motor in here and then not quite as many options in terms of vibration levels and intensity levels, but it's going to get the job done.

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I really like the finisher analogy.

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It's really good.

00:15:48.855 --> 00:15:54.086
So this is also this has also been a finisher too.

00:15:54.287 --> 00:15:57.813
That one was my favorite before and now the blend now finisher is my.

00:15:57.813 --> 00:16:00.024
I will say the USS.

00:16:00.024 --> 00:16:08.653
Orgasm is much easier with a partner because of like for for some of us with shorter arms and we've got like the bigger tummy, it's a lot easier to with a partner because, like for for some of us with shorter arms and we've got like the bigger tummy, it's a lot easier to have a partner.

00:16:08.653 --> 00:16:13.447
Help put it in the blend slash finisher I could use myself without any help.

00:16:13.947 --> 00:16:19.923
So like okay, I tell people it's almost like a little joystick, it's like a like.

00:16:19.923 --> 00:16:24.291
You're sitting playing playing video games, but you're playing body games.

00:16:24.672 --> 00:16:25.653
I love the rumble.

00:16:25.653 --> 00:16:28.028
Just give me all rumble and suction.

00:16:28.028 --> 00:16:35.051
Both together is even better, but I think these are going to be definitely high number top three, for sure for me.

00:16:35.051 --> 00:16:37.583
Yay, what do you two think?

00:16:37.583 --> 00:16:38.668
Yeah, oh yeah.

00:16:39.659 --> 00:16:52.615
I mean it was almost instantaneous with both of them, but especially with the blend, because I think that scoop really, like, really hit my G spot in a way that a lot of the other toys haven't.

00:16:52.615 --> 00:16:57.871
So having that section and the real big swoop made a big difference.

00:16:58.980 --> 00:16:59.422
The curve on.

00:16:59.422 --> 00:17:02.068
This is ideal for exactly what you said.

00:17:02.068 --> 00:17:05.146
Hit my G spot For that blended orgasm.

00:17:06.019 --> 00:17:08.230
Yeah, I mean it's the right size too.

00:17:08.230 --> 00:17:10.239
I mean for some of us, right?

00:17:10.239 --> 00:17:18.605
I mean I have a short vaginal canal, so for me it hits exactly where I need it to, which is amazing, because I don't find that very often.

00:17:18.605 --> 00:17:22.313
But that one is now my top favorite.

00:17:22.313 --> 00:17:25.009
And then USS Orgasm, and then we go from there.

00:17:26.582 --> 00:17:38.547
I love the ranking, and so there is something that I was not able to send to you all yet that will be launching, actually, in a few short weeks, beginning of March, so I'll be able to get you some at the time.

00:17:38.547 --> 00:17:44.602
And again, it's going to be a blend between vibration and orgasm, and it's unlike anything else that we have out there.

00:17:44.602 --> 00:17:49.146
I have a feeling we solve what you're telling me you're probably going to be fans.

00:17:49.627 --> 00:17:50.949
You are such a tease.

00:17:51.609 --> 00:17:53.491
I love it, I love it.

00:17:53.491 --> 00:17:56.516
My birthday is in March, so this sounds like a great birthday to me.

00:18:03.059 --> 00:18:03.320
Awesome, yeah.

00:18:03.320 --> 00:18:03.762
So I'm so curious, kim.

00:18:03.762 --> 00:18:04.909
How do they decide what's the next design going to be?

00:18:04.909 --> 00:18:05.471
What are they going to do?

00:18:05.471 --> 00:18:05.893
Who do they talk to?

00:18:05.893 --> 00:18:07.760
Do they talk to any fat people Like how do they know what's?

00:18:07.760 --> 00:18:08.182
Where do they?

00:18:08.182 --> 00:18:08.763
What do they want to?

00:18:08.763 --> 00:18:10.088
How do they come up with these ideas?

00:18:10.740 --> 00:18:25.919
So there's been a couple of different processes over the years and we're constantly refining it, but a lot of it is a lot of version one to version two and beyond has to do with feedback that we get from awesome folks like you in the field.

00:18:25.919 --> 00:18:33.561
Anytime we get feedback at the store level, we're at an event and somebody's like, well, this is great, but maybe it should do this.

00:18:33.561 --> 00:18:48.768
That information does get shared up along the chain and if my team is hearing it two or three times a month, that means that we figure that for every time we hear it there's probably already been seven people that have already mentioned it.

00:18:48.768 --> 00:18:51.602
So it kind of multiplies.

00:18:51.602 --> 00:19:10.131
We take that information and we share it on a board that we have within the company and then our product development team and our quality team takes that information and assesses it and makes changes accordingly from old versions, previous versions, to newer versions For totally brand new ideas.

00:19:10.171 --> 00:19:12.521
Again, same process is being followed.

00:19:12.541 --> 00:19:15.249
We're kind of looking at trends that we're hearing about.

00:19:15.249 --> 00:19:19.887
Questions are like, hey, it'd be great if you took this shape and put this motor in it.

00:19:19.887 --> 00:19:23.604
So we kind of take that and again we put that information on the board.

00:19:23.604 --> 00:19:51.933
And then there is, our product development team works with a couple of people on the business development sales team and kind of spins and kind of weighs and evaluates and we do some market research and then that's how the decision gets made in terms of we take a look at, like, the impact of the category in the marketplace, how much the market share we think we can grab by going into that, and then we decide whether it is a value to add to the collection or not.

00:19:51.933 --> 00:20:08.647
And then it either gets tabled or we decide to move forward with it right away, or we decide to move forward with it but we slot it into our roadmap and it takes a good solid year, year and a half, for something to go from the beginning idea to we're actually able to launch it.

00:20:08.647 --> 00:20:11.721
It's not a quick process Two quick things.

00:20:12.545 --> 00:20:15.193
Sell through when you get a lot of sales.

00:20:15.193 --> 00:20:17.079
That's a big deciding factor, right?

00:20:17.079 --> 00:20:18.682
Yes, absolutely.

00:20:19.182 --> 00:20:31.451
If we make something and it doesn't take off on the shelf and our partners have a hard time selling it, we don't necessarily kill it right away.

00:20:31.451 --> 00:20:39.292
Sometimes it takes a little while for trends and things to catch on, but we will let it go if we decide it's not a great option for us.

00:20:39.776 --> 00:20:42.528
I used to tell people when I had my lingerie store for those five years.

00:20:42.528 --> 00:20:49.893
I know it sounds very self-serving, but if you buy this lingerie at full price and it sells through, then they'll make more.

00:20:49.893 --> 00:20:56.119
If the only time you buy it is when it's on the discount pit, that sends a different message to them.

00:20:56.119 --> 00:20:56.461
Again.

00:20:56.461 --> 00:20:57.343
Nobody really likes this.

00:20:57.343 --> 00:20:59.690
So it's hard to tell people.

00:20:59.690 --> 00:21:06.133
But if you really love something, you need to buy it at full price and support the retailer and the distributor.

00:21:06.133 --> 00:21:10.420
But I do also want to say that I do realize that you guys take feedback from clients.

00:21:10.921 --> 00:21:15.573
I know I'm not the only one, but when the first WeVibe came out, I was like you guys have to have a remote control.

00:21:15.573 --> 00:21:19.451
It's not going to work for me ever because I have to like, dig all in there and try to.

00:21:19.451 --> 00:21:27.105
It used to be like where you had to just do the switches and stuff on its own and no, be like where you had to just do the switches and stuff on its own and no.

00:21:27.105 --> 00:21:28.788
Then you guys added remote control yeah, I can use it now.

00:21:29.570 --> 00:21:36.086
Remotes make all the difference, because totally nobody nobody really wants to be fumbling around with buttons.

00:21:36.086 --> 00:21:38.913
That's like not sexy at all.

00:21:38.913 --> 00:21:42.826
Exactly, remotes are, remotes are.

00:21:42.826 --> 00:21:59.047
And then everything underneath the WeVibe collection also has app capability as well too, so you can up your technology game and just kind of set a favorite pattern and just set it and forget it and let the toy work its magic and you can be in your own groove and your headspace enjoying it, which is awesome.

00:21:59.227 --> 00:22:00.609
Speaking of buttons.

00:22:00.609 --> 00:22:04.086
That brings me to one of the toys you sent us and I have a question.

00:22:04.086 --> 00:22:07.261
So the next, which I was.

00:22:07.261 --> 00:22:16.587
I was very excited about one because my dog, who I'm looking at and no one else can see, stole my other one and destroyed it.

00:22:16.587 --> 00:22:19.553
So I had like she thought it was her own toy.

00:22:19.553 --> 00:22:22.142
Clearly it was not.

00:22:22.142 --> 00:22:43.844
So I was very excited about it and I like it and it does do the same thing I am curious about there's a button that's like I keep yeah, so I keep hitting it every like I'm like in it, and then I hit the button and it like either stops or it like changes its thing and I'm like what am I doing wrong?

00:22:43.864 --> 00:22:50.426
so so that that button that you're hitting when you say, changes things absolutely.

00:22:50.426 --> 00:22:53.432
Cause this is what the next is all about.

00:22:53.432 --> 00:22:57.789
It's about this button changes the depth of the airwaves.

00:22:57.789 --> 00:23:02.201
So before next came out every product in the marketplace.

00:23:02.201 --> 00:23:16.613
So everything underneath the Womanizer umbrella, everything out there underneath any other manufacturer's umbrella, you can make the air depth level, or, sorry, the air depth waves, either a fast or a slow air depth wave.

00:23:16.613 --> 00:23:23.170
But you couldn't change whether that was at a high air depth level or a low air depth level.

00:23:23.170 --> 00:23:23.830
It was the same.

00:23:24.270 --> 00:23:29.707
So when you use this, when you power it on, it's on a low air depth level.

00:23:29.707 --> 00:23:41.090
So it's basically like you're at the beach and you wandered out and the water is just at your ankles, Feel that kind of lapping at your ankles, at your feet, and then, if you hit the button again, now I've got two lights on.

00:23:41.090 --> 00:23:43.804
Now you've made those air depth levels higher.

00:23:43.804 --> 00:23:48.643
Now you wandered out in the water and now those waves are hitting you at your waist.

00:23:48.643 --> 00:23:52.190
You're like, Ooh, this feels very different than it felt just at my ankles.

00:23:52.190 --> 00:23:55.702
And then, if you hit this button again, all three lights are on.

00:23:55.702 --> 00:23:57.625
Now you've waited out and you're up to your neck.

00:23:57.625 --> 00:24:01.609
So what happens is that you dial it back down.

00:24:02.411 --> 00:24:08.300
Intensity level one feels very different on one there, two there, three there.

00:24:08.300 --> 00:24:13.289
So you've got 14 levels of intensity, three different air depths.

00:24:13.289 --> 00:24:19.488
Then, if you really want to up your experience, go to the autopilot button on the back.

00:24:19.488 --> 00:24:31.682
Autopilot means hey, you are not in control of this intensity journey, this little baby is.

00:24:31.682 --> 00:24:34.352
So this is when you're just going to lay back and let go for the best drive in your life.

00:24:34.352 --> 00:24:42.662
It's like the limo driver is hot and amazing and you're like whoa baby, you're going to get air depth level changing and intensity level changing and there's actually three different levels.

00:24:42.662 --> 00:24:48.393
So it's never going to take you from like one to 14, because your body is going to be like, oh no, not there yet.

00:24:48.393 --> 00:24:52.228
So there's like a low where it's going to randomly cycle you between one and six.

00:24:52.228 --> 00:24:53.270
There's a medium.

00:24:53.270 --> 00:24:54.942
It's going to cycle you between six and 11.

00:24:54.942 --> 00:25:04.909
And if you happen to be like all in nine to 14, and if you live up there in the stratosphere, I bow down.

00:25:05.871 --> 00:25:06.551
I love that.

00:25:06.551 --> 00:25:07.433
That's what I was trying.

00:25:07.433 --> 00:25:08.481
I was like what am I doing wrong?

00:25:08.481 --> 00:25:09.344
Why do I keep like?

00:25:09.344 --> 00:25:15.490
And because I was I was so, you know, like used to the steady rhythm and all of a sudden it's gone and I'm like what, what did I push?

00:25:15.490 --> 00:25:22.851
And then I have to okay, okay, and then go back, and then okay, and so I'm like, man, I must be doing something wrong.

00:25:23.751 --> 00:25:47.929
No, I had the exact same experience, ashley, and while I think there is so much to that toy that you know is going to be fantastic because I have a big belly and I have little arms my finger hits the autopilot button all the time, and if it was just a little bit longer that I could reach and not have my hand right there, I think it would be perfect.

00:25:49.513 --> 00:25:52.142
So you're wanting a longer handle, basically Okay.

00:25:52.482 --> 00:25:52.923
On everything.

00:25:53.304 --> 00:26:00.301
On pretty much every womanizer, just because with having the big belly and the little arms, it's harder to reach down and get exactly where you're going.

00:26:00.301 --> 00:26:02.663
Reach down and get you know exactly where you're going.

00:26:03.784 --> 00:26:06.546
Fair critique and I'll be more than happy.

00:26:06.546 --> 00:26:22.056
I've discussed this with the design team multiple times and I will continue to discuss this and at some point in time we definitely will be able to offer you the folks that need the longer handle an option.

00:26:22.056 --> 00:26:22.955
I promise.

00:26:23.537 --> 00:26:25.278
Or even if there was an attachment to it.

00:26:25.278 --> 00:26:28.059
You know, like like this is like a universal attachment.

00:26:28.059 --> 00:26:36.353
I know that other companies do things like that, but I mean having one specific that really like is for the womanizer product products, or that we buy products.

00:26:36.353 --> 00:26:39.226
Even that would be a game changer.

00:26:40.669 --> 00:26:53.326
Great feedback, and I'm wondering too, you know if we can make it as simple as finding a way to control it with the remote as well, too yeah.

00:26:53.346 --> 00:26:54.270
So, womanizer, plus, just bring that back.

00:26:54.270 --> 00:26:55.193
That's all I knew we were going.

00:26:55.193 --> 00:26:55.836
I knew we were going there.

00:26:55.836 --> 00:26:57.721
So, um, I have asked specifically for the plus.

00:26:57.721 --> 00:27:03.469
I was actually in our offices in berlin in october of this year and I said please bring the plus back.

00:27:03.469 --> 00:27:11.489
And our basically director of head of sales for Globally.

00:27:11.489 --> 00:27:23.044
He immediately went to his computer and he filed a request with our product development team to not necessarily bring the plus back, but we have requested a longer handle.

00:27:23.044 --> 00:27:32.699
So I don't know exactly which form it's going to come in, but your requests have been heard, addressed and we are working on it as we speak.

00:27:32.699 --> 00:27:36.669
That being said, I saw some pluses in a store not too long ago.

00:27:36.669 --> 00:27:40.884
So if you all got some friends who want some pluses, I can probably score them for you.

00:27:40.884 --> 00:27:42.386
What?

00:27:42.688 --> 00:27:45.653
Yes, what Mine's still going strong.

00:27:45.653 --> 00:27:46.714
But yeah, I know a lot of people are.

00:27:46.714 --> 00:27:50.026
I've had mine for over 10 years.

00:27:50.026 --> 00:27:51.451
It's still going.

00:27:53.362 --> 00:27:58.058
But the wand that you sent us, that's the perfect length.

00:27:58.058 --> 00:28:00.724
Like I used that last night.

00:28:00.724 --> 00:28:10.359
Exactly, I first of all love that it's a rumbly, love, love, love that it's a rumbly, um, but the length on that and the flexibility fabulous.

00:28:10.359 --> 00:28:14.248
So like if we could get that kind of handle on a womanizer.

00:28:14.248 --> 00:28:18.941
Oh, please, like I would buy that for every person that I know that has a clitoris.

00:28:19.080 --> 00:28:24.329
It would just be like yeah, this is it, this is the toy Amazing feedback.

00:28:24.329 --> 00:28:33.505
So I will totally be like all right, we need to basically add this much onto a womanizer, and then we will have all sorts of happiness.

00:28:34.067 --> 00:28:34.326
Yes.

00:28:34.326 --> 00:28:36.301
And that wand is amazing.

00:28:36.301 --> 00:28:47.003
The only thing I would say that I struggle with is the little um, how to put the battery against it like the, the little plug-in, because it slips off the charging pins.

00:28:47.003 --> 00:28:52.824
Yeah, yep, it's the only but, I, mean, if you get the perfect you know like place for it to lay, it's fine.

00:28:52.824 --> 00:28:54.667
Um, but yeah, I would just.

00:28:54.775 --> 00:29:04.343
That would be my only change to that, because that is a fabulous wand, great feedback and you know this is a an improved magnetic charging pin and you know this is an improved magnetic charging pin over what we had forever ago.

00:29:04.343 --> 00:29:04.763
Crystal.

00:29:05.204 --> 00:29:11.257
Remember the old Tango and Touch would just have the two little pins, so this is definitely stronger, but I can I understand.

00:29:11.257 --> 00:29:18.601
There are times when I put them on chargers too and I think like I walk away and they're blinking happily, and then I come back and I'm like, oh shoot, it's looked off while I was gone.

00:29:19.021 --> 00:29:24.390
So is there a reason why some of the magnets are, I mean, like newer products are probably going to have stronger magnets.

00:29:24.390 --> 00:29:31.741
But I mean, is there a reason why, just in general, it kind of varies, even with ones that are in the same production time period?

00:29:32.344 --> 00:29:33.246
I think a lot of it.

00:29:33.246 --> 00:29:38.557
Honestly I don't have a real scientific reason for this, but sometimes I think what it is.

00:29:38.557 --> 00:29:49.465
It's the shape of a toy where if it just rotates slightly I mean if you can keep it completely stable then it's good but if it rotates slightly at all, then that magnet is just not strong enough to hold it.

00:29:49.465 --> 00:30:04.185
So I found with previous versions of our toys that had a less strong magnet, sometimes I would just have to kind of cradle them in like a washcloth or like a t-shirt that was nearby, just to give it the support so it didn't shift while it was being charged.

00:30:04.267 --> 00:30:05.731
But that's a good idea.

00:30:05.913 --> 00:30:18.676
You know what would be a fun idea is a toy docking station oh yeah, when I saw your eyes light up, I knew exactly where you're going, so I love that idea as well, too.

00:30:18.676 --> 00:30:20.397
Too Great feedback.

00:30:20.397 --> 00:30:28.682
Okay, I'm literally just going to send this whole conversation to our PPM team and be like hey, run with it, you all have all the ideas, make it work.

00:30:28.682 --> 00:30:30.363
Now You're engineers, I'm not.

00:30:31.482 --> 00:30:35.744
We are happy to give any feedback from the FAT perspective at any point in time.

00:30:36.586 --> 00:30:38.666
I love a docking station.

00:30:39.086 --> 00:30:39.487
I do too.

00:30:39.487 --> 00:30:41.147
I was trying to find my Womanizer Plus.

00:30:41.147 --> 00:30:46.009
I can measure, but if I remember right it's about 13 inches long somewhere around there.

00:30:46.730 --> 00:30:49.852
I would say it's slightly longer than this right, Just a little bit, maybe.

00:30:49.852 --> 00:30:51.252
Just a little bit Nice.

00:30:51.512 --> 00:30:52.292
I do love that wand.

00:30:52.292 --> 00:30:54.462
That wand is, whew, nice job.

00:30:54.462 --> 00:30:55.196
Whoever that did that.

00:30:55.196 --> 00:30:57.104
One kudos Chef's kiss.

00:30:57.104 --> 00:30:59.098
Awesome, All the good stuff Love it.

00:30:59.799 --> 00:31:01.282
Yeah, I love that.

00:31:01.282 --> 00:31:13.601
It's the surgical grade silicone, like there's nothing on there that's like bumpy or raw, it's just like a smooth vibe, like it is easy to grip, it's solid.

00:31:14.214 --> 00:31:16.824
It's as if someone who owned a clitoris designed that toy.

00:31:18.596 --> 00:31:25.541
It's as if I love it too because it's got these flat sides, so when you turn it sideways you get that broader surface area.

00:31:25.541 --> 00:31:26.063
I don't know that.

00:31:26.063 --> 00:31:28.678
There's a lot of other toys out there that offer that.

00:31:28.678 --> 00:31:35.721
It's also a hundred percent waterproof, which I did not realize that most swans are splash proof.

00:31:35.721 --> 00:31:38.807
Not a lot of them are a hundred percent water submersible.

00:31:38.807 --> 00:31:48.204
So this really, with being rechargeable, having the app capability and being able to take it in your tub or your pool or your hot tub or whatever, makes it even all the more fun.

00:31:48.566 --> 00:31:58.122
That's exactly what I thought when I was using it, like I, I use it with my husband and cause we thought you know it'd be like a fun, you know to like have him right and try to use that friction and that pressure.

00:31:58.122 --> 00:31:59.865
And it worked okay.

00:31:59.865 --> 00:32:00.787
For that it was good.

00:32:00.787 --> 00:32:01.368
It felt great.

00:32:01.368 --> 00:32:10.301
I liked using it by myself a little bit better and as I was using it I was thinking, oh God, this would be a great hot tub accessory.

00:32:11.104 --> 00:32:22.586
I just I need a hot tub right now, and then, when we do the docking station, we can come up with some sort of underwater toy holder, like a cup holder, but a toy holder.

00:32:23.307 --> 00:32:28.315
Yeah, like that floating, like you put little floaties around it so we can just kind of float in the pool or the hot tub with you.

00:32:29.959 --> 00:32:36.819
And whenever we talk about hot tubs, I always say I never met a jet, I didn't want to hump so I could use the jet and the toy.

00:32:36.819 --> 00:32:39.826
But, kim, that's the word right Submersible.

00:32:39.826 --> 00:32:47.058
And when people say, oh, I need a waterproof toy, some of toy or I know they're some of them are splash proof, some of them are waterproof and others are submersible.

00:32:47.058 --> 00:32:51.358
So that's the word you're looking for if you want to take in the hot tub exactly it's.

00:32:51.479 --> 00:32:57.137
Ipx7 basically is what it is, and that means it can be be submersed up to a depth of three meters.

00:32:57.137 --> 00:33:00.125
Um, I don't know what happens beyond three meters.

00:33:00.125 --> 00:33:06.007
So if you have any Cuba diving people that willing to like take a ticket for a whirl.

00:33:07.355 --> 00:33:08.919
Kim, I have a question.

00:33:08.919 --> 00:33:15.280
What is this new thing where this I don't know how new it is, but where the toy has to be touching the skin?

00:33:15.280 --> 00:33:16.484
What is that technology called?

00:33:17.015 --> 00:33:22.226
So that technology is called smart silence and it is an amazing technology.

00:33:22.226 --> 00:33:26.300
But we also know it can be a confusing technology for users.

00:33:26.300 --> 00:33:38.229
It started within the Womanizer brand and so the Next has it, duo has it, premium 2 has it and now we have Crossover, because Wand has it as well too.

00:33:38.229 --> 00:33:45.641
So with a Womanizer product you can actually in all of our products you can disable smart silence.

00:33:45.641 --> 00:33:50.455
So basically we put it on there as a, as a way to be discreet.

00:33:50.455 --> 00:33:58.566
So in case you've got kiddos or a roommate or parents and you need to like make sure you just pull it away from your body really quick and nobody knows it's running.

00:33:58.566 --> 00:34:00.038
That's the idea behind it.

00:34:00.278 --> 00:34:06.778
But when you power something on and you don't hear it going, a lot of customers are like I don't understand, is it broken?

00:34:06.778 --> 00:34:11.436
So right now it is in smart silence mode on the next, because that's the default.

00:34:11.436 --> 00:34:21.630
But if I hold down plus and minus at the same time for about three seconds, the toy will go pulse, pulse and it will constantly be running.

00:34:21.630 --> 00:34:31.882
So that's how you disable and re-enable it on a Womanizer product and then I can take it out of smart silence again by doing the same thing and then on the WeVibe Wand.

00:34:31.882 --> 00:34:37.041
This is the only one that has just the single button, but there's a little button there that has a swish on it.

00:34:37.041 --> 00:34:38.266
That's the pairing button.

00:34:38.266 --> 00:34:41.461
But that's how you take it in and out of smart silence as well too.

00:34:41.461 --> 00:34:54.385
So if you want to be able to like by ear, you know what vibration intensity level you like to be on, you can go ahead and just put it, take it out of smart silence mode, set it to where you want it to be, and if you're ready to rock and roll.

00:34:55.315 --> 00:34:55.996
That's genius.

00:34:55.996 --> 00:34:58.782
I actually had a friend was like, can you ask?

00:34:58.782 --> 00:35:01.085
Can you ask and see how to take that off?

00:35:01.085 --> 00:35:02.628
And I was like I'll see.

00:35:02.628 --> 00:35:04.655
But that's fantastic.

00:35:04.655 --> 00:35:06.623
I was like I didn't know that that was even a possibility.

00:35:07.315 --> 00:35:11.322
Within the Womanizer line, pretty much anything plus.

00:35:11.322 --> 00:35:15.369
Well, actually, between both lines, plus and minus do one or two things.

00:35:15.369 --> 00:35:17.963
And underneath the Womanizer it's in and out of smart silence.

00:35:17.963 --> 00:35:20.943
Underneath WeVibe, it puts it in and out of travel lock.

00:35:20.943 --> 00:35:22.117
It's in and out of smart silence.

00:35:22.117 --> 00:35:23.400
Underneath we vibe it puts it in and out of travel lock.

00:35:23.400 --> 00:35:36.460
And if it's a product that doesn't have two buttons on it, if it doesn't have a plus and minus, like a moxie but you're comparing the moxie with the remote you can do the same thing by holding down plus and minus on the remote got it.

00:35:37.202 --> 00:35:37.842
That's awesome.

00:35:37.842 --> 00:35:39.304
Yeah, thank you for that.

00:35:39.746 --> 00:35:42.530
You're welcome, ashley, aren't you a big fan of the moxie?

00:35:43.996 --> 00:35:45.139
uh, so I had the moxie.

00:35:45.139 --> 00:35:47.384
I like the moxie, it's great.

00:35:47.384 --> 00:35:49.347
I enjoy the discreteness of it.

00:35:49.347 --> 00:35:56.663
It is not my favorite anymore, but only because I have bigger and better choices.

00:35:56.663 --> 00:35:58.246
I went back before.

00:35:58.246 --> 00:36:01.550
I had, like you know, the blend.

00:36:05.416 --> 00:36:08.585
I was like this is this is really I like that I can wear it.

00:36:08.585 --> 00:36:27.610
I really appreciated because at the time I'm polyamorous and at the time I had a partner who was far away and I liked, you know, the ability to be able to, kind of the thought of being able to play far away and having it controlled by the app, and it was fun, it's nice, it's small, it sits inside where that.

00:36:27.610 --> 00:36:28.914
That's my buddy, though.

00:36:28.914 --> 00:36:34.842
That's right there as kim holds up my finisher.

00:36:34.862 --> 00:36:40.356
That's my street fighter right there I love it well and you know the moxie.

00:36:40.356 --> 00:36:49.519
I always tell people because it does have a little, a slightly less powerful motor in it than you get from, like a Tango or a touch or a wand that's because it's a teasing toy.

00:36:49.519 --> 00:36:57.827
So I always tell people like this is something we want you to be able to wear for an hour, 90 minutes, two hours while you're at a nice long dinner or a walk.

00:36:57.827 --> 00:37:07.585
We don't want you to have, you know, have an orgasm three minutes into your nice romantic dinner and you're like all right, jigs up, check, please, let's go.

00:37:07.585 --> 00:37:08.327
It is, it's fun.

00:37:08.327 --> 00:37:16.099
For people that are wanting a little bit more of a marathon session, I like to say yeah, I would definitely agree with that.

00:37:16.541 --> 00:37:18.123
It takes a lot longer.

00:37:18.123 --> 00:37:26.143
It's not like the finisher or the USS orgasm, where you're just going to be like man, where are you?

00:37:26.503 --> 00:37:27.083
So, murphy?

00:37:27.083 --> 00:37:31.760
Actually I'm curious what do y'all think about the new forget what it's called now, but the remote control.

00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:33.867
I haven't had a chance to try that one.

00:37:33.914 --> 00:37:34.114
Yet.

00:37:34.114 --> 00:37:36.940
That's the new Jive 2.

00:37:36.940 --> 00:37:39.724
And I think the shape is.

00:37:39.724 --> 00:37:42.510
The improvement on the shape is huge on that.

00:37:43.974 --> 00:37:50.889
I've always wanted to have one of those remote control panty toys, but they usually don't fit fat bodies.

00:37:50.889 --> 00:38:00.123
And even someone sent me one recently and I had to give it to a friend because there's like I mean I could keep the remote and put it in my undies and stuff, but it just the undies aren't going to fit me.

00:38:00.123 --> 00:38:01.806
So anyway, this one though, but it just the undies aren't going to sit me.

00:38:01.806 --> 00:38:02.987
So anyway, this one, though.

00:38:02.987 --> 00:38:04.648
You can just take this out.

00:38:04.648 --> 00:38:07.893
I mean you could take this out to dinner, just leave it in there and away you go.

00:38:09.074 --> 00:38:31.480
Yes, and there's a hinge in there now which allows you to bend that internal arm up and back, which should be able to hit clitoris, and also that keeps that antenna and the receiver away from the body, because the original jive it was a little, the stem wasn't as stiff and so covered by a tummy or covered by thighs if you were sitting or standing, just depending.

00:38:31.480 --> 00:38:34.266
Um sometimes made connection not great.

00:38:34.266 --> 00:38:39.518
So I think having that stiffer, remote or stiffer arm gonna make all the difference in the world.

00:38:39.518 --> 00:38:43.320
Stiffer are going to make all the difference in the world.

00:38:43.460 --> 00:38:44.581
Stiffer is always better.

00:38:44.581 --> 00:38:45.641
I did try that one.

00:38:45.641 --> 00:38:46.983
I really liked it.

00:38:46.983 --> 00:38:48.523
I think it was really fun.

00:38:48.523 --> 00:38:51.927
For me it felt more of also kind of like that teasy thing.

00:38:51.927 --> 00:38:57.409
I don't know that it got me there quite the same way that the other ones do, but it feels really nice.

00:38:57.409 --> 00:38:59.092
It's a lot easier to use.

00:38:59.092 --> 00:39:00.572
I enjoy it.

00:39:00.572 --> 00:39:01.657
I enjoy it a lot.

00:39:01.657 --> 00:39:02.182
It's a lot easier to use.

00:39:02.182 --> 00:39:02.405
I enjoy it.

00:39:02.405 --> 00:39:03.192
Yay, I enjoy it a lot.

00:39:03.192 --> 00:39:03.534
It's fun.

00:39:03.534 --> 00:39:05.121
This is a fun thing.

00:39:05.121 --> 00:39:06.842
I like the Teezy toys also.

00:39:06.842 --> 00:39:09.181
It's fun to wear out to dinner, like she said.

00:39:10.215 --> 00:39:11.380
It's wearable for a reason.

00:39:11.914 --> 00:39:23.396
I like that and I haven't tried it yet, but I like that it looked more bulbous on the insert so it looks like it would stay a bit easier.

00:39:23.396 --> 00:39:26.625
Where some of the other ones, it felt like it would kind of like, yeah, like it was kind of like falling out.

00:39:26.625 --> 00:39:35.056
So, yeah, I'm really excited to try that one, that one's charging right now yeah, yeah, there's definitely an anatomical shape to that.

00:39:35.096 --> 00:39:43.286
That makes sense, where it's going to push up into that behind that, into that g-spot wall and give you some, give you more points of contact inside the body.

00:39:44.576 --> 00:39:52.860
It's much better for me sitting than laying, because I have all that pressure from my fat thighs, my fat tummy, my fat mods Bam.

00:39:53.722 --> 00:39:54.724
I love that.

00:39:54.724 --> 00:39:56.509
That's great, great feedback for us.

00:39:58.217 --> 00:40:01.425
I was going to say something similar, crystal, except about walking.

00:40:01.425 --> 00:40:02.206
I didn't.

00:40:02.206 --> 00:40:13.255
It was a little awkward for me trying to walk with it, but not because I thought it was going to fall out, but because it was like having like a super, super, super plus hand pawn, like it's like you know it's there.

00:40:13.255 --> 00:40:24.146
So if like so I didn't wear it until it was going to be time for me to use it, and then it was good because I was able to sit and it was comfortable.

00:40:24.606 --> 00:40:27.748
It's not like you don't want to walk up and down the aisles of the grocery store wearing it.

00:40:27.909 --> 00:40:29.170
No, no, I did.

00:40:29.170 --> 00:40:30.952
I did a template, though I did.

00:40:30.952 --> 00:40:38.201
I really did, because I want to be able to try these out all the way and the different ways that they can be used.

00:40:38.201 --> 00:40:44.443
I made it out to the car and was like, okay, well, I'm going to go back inside, take this out, put it back in a little later.

00:40:45.204 --> 00:40:59.219
One suggestion for these teeny, tiny little remote controls they're lovely, but could y'all put something else on, like the clothes in the dark, or a little stripe of white, because you know how easy this is going to get lost in my car or my house, my bed, my blankets.

00:40:59.219 --> 00:41:06.402
It's just something to make it like I can see it again, because it just blends with everything you can see.

00:41:06.402 --> 00:41:12.483
It's like wafer, thin, it's lovely size, but just some red or white or caution orange, something.

00:41:13.625 --> 00:41:16.722
I will again take that to the design team or the product team.

00:41:16.722 --> 00:41:20.976
I think it makes total sense A little pop or something to make it easier to find.

00:41:21.657 --> 00:41:22.219
That would be good.

00:41:22.219 --> 00:41:23.181
Yeah, I'm excited.

00:41:23.181 --> 00:41:24.583
This is a lovely toy.

00:41:24.583 --> 00:41:28.929
I'm going to keep this up there for my top five Awesome.

00:41:29.255 --> 00:41:30.681
Yay it feels, so good.

00:41:31.094 --> 00:41:32.661
It's got the nicest feeling to it.

00:41:33.195 --> 00:41:36.041
It's so soft right the material of it.

00:41:36.041 --> 00:41:39.925
I felt that way with the Next also.

00:41:39.925 --> 00:41:42.119
It's so soft.

00:41:42.119 --> 00:41:43.423
I like that.

00:41:44.155 --> 00:41:47.175
The silicone that we use is chef's kiss.

00:41:47.757 --> 00:41:49.322
I want a whole outfit made out of that.

00:41:49.422 --> 00:41:49.643
Oh yeah.

00:41:50.815 --> 00:41:53.364
Well, like if you could just make me a whole outfit.

00:41:53.784 --> 00:41:57.864
it'd be great If they would make those in plus sizes or super plus for me.

00:41:57.864 --> 00:42:02.505
So we call this surgical or has been great, or what do you guys call it.

00:42:03.135 --> 00:42:06.041
So we actually are calling it body safe.

00:42:06.041 --> 00:42:08.126
But it is medical grade silicone.

00:42:08.126 --> 00:42:18.130
The challenge with for something to be officially medical grade, it means it has to have white glove treatment from the time it leaves the factory to the time it arrives at your house.

00:42:18.130 --> 00:42:26.842
And so when it leaves our factory, of course it's medical grade, because anything that's touched it, I mean it's gloved, everybody's in the white hazmat suits, all the things.

00:42:26.842 --> 00:42:31.960
But then you know once, quite honestly, it goes into a box and FedEx is carrying it.

00:42:31.960 --> 00:42:33.204
That's not white gloves.

00:42:33.204 --> 00:42:38.822
So that's where we have to kind of say, we have to kind of back away and say we cannot technically say it's medical grade, but it is.

00:42:38.822 --> 00:42:40.465
It's just we say it's body safe.

00:42:45.539 --> 00:42:46.222
What do you?

00:42:47.047 --> 00:42:48.695
all recommend for cleaning them.

00:42:48.695 --> 00:42:53.501
So we recommend like a toy cleaner, of course, but you can also use soap and water.

00:42:53.501 --> 00:42:56.534
I always tell people use the soap and water or use the soap that you're going to use on your body.

00:42:56.534 --> 00:42:59.063
Do not be using Dawn dishwashing soap.

00:42:59.063 --> 00:43:00.641
I had somebody tell me they use that.

00:43:00.641 --> 00:43:04.208
I had to bite my tongue and say how many yeast infections have you had?

00:43:04.208 --> 00:43:05.313
But I didn't.

00:43:05.313 --> 00:43:06.416
I wanted to, but I didn't.

00:43:06.416 --> 00:43:17.639
So whatever you're going to use on your body, but a toy cleaner I know a lot of people are big fans of the toy cleaner that you can kind of spray on these days, the foaming ones when you rinse them off and dry them off.

00:43:17.840 --> 00:43:24.298
On a womanizer, you can actually take the heads off and then spray the toy cleaner inside of here.

00:43:24.298 --> 00:43:31.324
You can also submerge it in soapy water and turn it on and then actually hold it up in the air, which is great.

00:43:31.324 --> 00:43:37.144
This is what I love to tell people, especially because you know there's those folks out there that are very germaphobic about their toys.

00:43:37.144 --> 00:43:46.530
When you can do that with a womanizer, that water is basically going through those inner chambers and it's getting it completely clean inside to out, which is awesome.

00:43:46.530 --> 00:43:51.987
And then in terms of storing it, you get a with every WeVibe and womanizer product purchase.

00:43:52.054 --> 00:43:59.480
There are storage bags so you can store them in the little storage bags, which is great because we do use a really amazing quality silicone.

00:43:59.480 --> 00:44:11.509
But we recommend that you don't have a whole bunch of silicone toys stored for a long time Because, especially if you're mixing brands, there are other qualities of silicone that can kind of start to make things get a little sticky.

00:44:11.509 --> 00:44:15.755
So if you've got them inside those bags, that really helps make sure they're not brushing up against each other.

00:44:15.755 --> 00:44:26.050
And again, I'm sure that you all have fabulous toy chests, hope chests, toy boxes, big, gigantic craftsman walk-ins that you bought.

00:44:26.050 --> 00:44:34.945
Basically, that's the best place to store, and we also know people toss them in their drawers as well too and hide them from their kids.

00:44:36.476 --> 00:44:37.681
I love that it comes with a bag.

00:44:37.681 --> 00:44:40.036
That's like next level.

00:44:40.036 --> 00:44:48.742
That's like when you're like this is a top tier product, because not only is the packaging so sleek, everything's encapsulated in there.

00:44:48.742 --> 00:44:51.365
You got your charger.

00:44:51.365 --> 00:44:56.869
You've got the little explanation of what the silicone is.

00:44:56.869 --> 00:44:59.112
You've got some of them come with like a little user guide.

00:44:59.112 --> 00:45:02.320
Silicone is You've got some of them come with like a little user guide.

00:45:02.320 --> 00:45:07.543
It's like that's what I want when I purchase a sex toy, so that it's like I don't have to think about this, I can safely store it, it's got all that I need.

00:45:07.543 --> 00:45:13.119
That's when I'm like, yes, you have to buy a womanizer or WeVibe for those reasons alone.

00:45:13.601 --> 00:45:16.027
Again, it's as if a woman designed these.

00:45:16.027 --> 00:45:26.103
I don't mean to be sexist, but I've been in this industry a little while and let me tell you used to be like they look like a rocket ship.

00:45:26.103 --> 00:45:34.760
You know they're hard, the vibrations here instead of down here, like and Kim, tell me if this is true, because I say this, I don't know if this is something I made up, but was Pure.

00:45:34.760 --> 00:45:38.677
The first company that was like, hey y'all, we need to really pay attention to the materials.

00:45:38.677 --> 00:45:42.668
We really want the, the FDA or wherever it is, to look at this stuff.

00:45:42.668 --> 00:45:46.320
We don't want to just put because I don't know if y'all know this, but there used to be all kinds of crap out on the market.

00:45:46.320 --> 00:45:47.364
Nobody even looked at it.

00:45:49.340 --> 00:45:55.644
And people were putting very crazy ingredients on such a very important and delicate part of the body.

00:45:55.644 --> 00:46:04.376
But Pure was actually the very first company to package silicone lube for consumer sale, and that was.

00:46:04.376 --> 00:46:06.161
I think this is our.

00:46:06.161 --> 00:46:08.206
I think it's our 30th anniversary this year.

00:46:08.206 --> 00:46:10.983
If it's not 2025, then it's 2026.

00:46:10.983 --> 00:46:11.585
It's coming.

00:46:11.585 --> 00:46:39.186
But the founder, Pure, took a look around the industry and realized that you can only get silicone lube either packaged in a condom or you bought it in giant vats like the gel that you get used on you at the doctor's office, and so he realized that there was a huge opportunity to bring bottled, packaged lube to the basic consumer and he basically kind of created the whole silicone lube industry, which is crazy.

00:46:39.186 --> 00:46:47.367
But again, Pure is all 510k certified because it is manufactured overseas, so it is an official lubricant.

00:46:47.367 --> 00:46:56.338
Things that are manufactured within the United States get to be held with a little bit different standards because they don't have to necessarily pass through all that testing to be able to be imported.

00:46:56.518 --> 00:47:06.014
So the best of the best that you get with Pure grateful to him and grateful to them, because yeah, that's when it I mean people using ky and stuff.

00:47:06.014 --> 00:47:07.382
So like, what are you doing?

00:47:07.382 --> 00:47:09.829
Why would you subject yourself to that?

00:47:09.829 --> 00:47:11.782
There's so much better out there, you know.

00:47:11.782 --> 00:47:13.530
It's just like do they just not know?

00:47:13.530 --> 00:47:16.422
Or they just see that I always say see in your doctor's office.

00:47:16.422 --> 00:47:29.702
I'm gonna say not a good one, okay, like it's good for that, but then that's, that's it only the one time every two years so I have a question about this, like lubrication, specifically because we've had a little bit of controversy here and there about a specific ingredient.

00:47:30.083 --> 00:47:35.333
So I am curious what your take on coconut oil for lubricant is.

00:47:36.500 --> 00:47:48.724
Well, it is something that can be used, but it is an ingredient that Pure does not offer in the line and I am assuming that is based off of.

00:47:48.724 --> 00:47:59.072
We've done the testing and for whatever reason that it just doesn't give a result that we necessarily feel it's favorable for all bodies.

00:47:59.072 --> 00:48:08.849
We're trying to do formulations that are going to help a large majority of people and for some reason that one just doesn't pass the test.

00:48:08.849 --> 00:48:11.367
Now I'm not saying you can't use it because it is safe for toys.

00:48:11.367 --> 00:48:11.849
You can.

00:48:12.961 --> 00:48:13.684
I don't know about y'all.

00:48:13.684 --> 00:48:15.567
I love to drink coconut rum.

00:48:15.567 --> 00:48:18.748
I love to eat, like you know, coconut cake.

00:48:18.748 --> 00:48:21.945
I don't necessarily know that I want coconut oil in my badge.

00:48:21.945 --> 00:48:23.309
That's fair Again, not to judge somebody else.

00:48:23.309 --> 00:48:25.434
I don't necessarily know that I want coconut oil in my badge.

00:48:25.434 --> 00:48:27.117
That's fair Again, not to judge somebody else.

00:48:27.117 --> 00:48:28.059
Yuck somebody's yum.

00:48:28.059 --> 00:48:32.342
Sure, it's going to be good for some folks.

00:48:32.342 --> 00:48:38.552
But you talk about people not necessarily knowing you think about what's happening just in daily life.

00:48:38.552 --> 00:48:40.186
You've got your hot to a girl.

00:48:40.186 --> 00:48:46.472
You got all the parties that happened at Diddy's with the baby oil.

00:48:46.472 --> 00:48:59.400
I mean there's a lot of lack of education and information on how amazing lubricant can be for you in your daily life, not just necessarily when you're wanting it for sexy time as somebody who is?

00:49:00.282 --> 00:49:04.871
totally post-menopausal, being able to have a daily lubricant.

00:49:04.871 --> 00:49:11.813
I tell people all the time we put lotion on our face, we put lotion on our hands, our legs, we put lip balm on our lips.

00:49:11.813 --> 00:49:21.291
If your lips here are dried out, so are other parts of your body, and if you need to apply a moisturizer here, you need a moisturizer down there and people forget too.

00:49:21.331 --> 00:49:24.465
If you take antihistamines dries out everything, including your vagina.

00:49:24.465 --> 00:49:37.264
But I'm just going to say there might be someone here that I know and love that uses the Pure every single day because he's spoiled, so he doesn't get like monkey spot, you know, like when people work hard all day.

00:49:37.264 --> 00:49:41.239
So he just I'm like no wonder we go through so much.

00:49:41.239 --> 00:49:43.141
Holy shit, it's expensive.

00:49:43.141 --> 00:49:45.081
It's good though, it's the best.

00:49:45.081 --> 00:49:46.523
It's like the Rolls Royce.

00:49:46.523 --> 00:49:48.344
You have a source.

00:49:48.864 --> 00:49:50.545
I do, yes, I do, thank you.

00:49:50.545 --> 00:49:53.726
What's something that people would be surprised about your job?

00:49:54.688 --> 00:49:56.668
Oh boy, that's a great question.

00:49:56.668 --> 00:50:03.873
I think that it's not as titillating as I think most people think.

00:50:03.873 --> 00:50:08.416
You run into random strangers on an airplane and they're like, oh, what do you do?

00:50:08.416 --> 00:50:10.217
I used to soft shoe that.

00:50:10.217 --> 00:50:15.362
I'm like oh, I'm in health and wellness Now I'm just like I sell sex toys.

00:50:15.402 --> 00:50:18.407
Only once did I have a guy completely turn his body away from me.

00:50:18.407 --> 00:50:21.672
He got as far away from me in that plane seat as he possibly could.

00:50:21.672 --> 00:50:25.364
I was like, okay, bye, I didn't want to talk to you anyways.

00:50:25.364 --> 00:50:27.507
But it really is.

00:50:27.507 --> 00:50:37.360
You're selling pleasure to people, which is great, but when you talk about it day in, day out, you have zero judgment and it's just like I mentioned earlier.

00:50:37.360 --> 00:50:47.911
It's no different to me, basically, than selling somebody a really great book if I worked in a bookstore, or selling somebody a really great rug, or I worked in a bookstore or selling somebody a really great rug or a lamp if I worked in an interior design store.

00:50:47.911 --> 00:51:01.807
I think some people, when I tell people I go to shows, and I think they envision that we're all getting together having giant mass parties together, definitely.

00:51:01.847 --> 00:51:05.554
I'm sure that there are some in these past that happened.

00:51:05.554 --> 00:51:18.226
I'm sure there's still some fragments of things that I don't necessarily know about, but we're pretty professional people and we wear, you know, suits to the show and we'll have dinner and have a couple of cocktails and what a bed because we're tired.

00:51:19.320 --> 00:51:20.340
Just like when I worked in tech.

00:51:20.340 --> 00:51:22.963
We went to the tech, you know the Comdex or whatever.

00:51:22.963 --> 00:51:24.204
It's not any different.

00:51:24.204 --> 00:51:26.407
It just seems interesting to people, but it's not.

00:51:26.407 --> 00:51:27.768
After a while you're just like, eh, whatever.

00:51:27.768 --> 00:51:29.630
But also, why is sex?

00:51:29.630 --> 00:51:32.134
Why does it have a stigma?

00:51:32.134 --> 00:51:33.554
It's asked to stop.

00:51:33.554 --> 00:51:34.876
Y'all, come on, now it does.

00:51:46.179 --> 00:51:47.043
I believe we are on the cutting edge.

00:51:47.043 --> 00:52:04.375
I feel like my nieces and nephews that are all like from 30 down to seven Now the seven and 11 year old don't know what I do, but all the rest of them do and they're all very um, it's, it's just kind of a part of our conversation and I realize it's my job, but they're going out and talking about it with their friends and, um, I feel like I feel like times are changing and I'm hoping that it's going to become a little less stigmatized.

00:52:05.780 --> 00:52:14.429
I as a mom I mean I one of my goals has been cause I grew up in a very conservative space, so we didn't talk about sex in any way that was beneficial or healthy.

00:52:15.070 --> 00:52:31.148
And as a mom, I have definitely had those conversations with my kids and now my oldest is going to be 21 this year and they, like, from the time they were 18, they started talking about sex toys and they're like what kind of sex toys should I use with my partner?

00:52:31.148 --> 00:52:33.909
And they were really interested in the ones that you sent us.

00:52:33.909 --> 00:52:46.302
So like they really Van Nats, you know a much younger kid at this point like really having those open conversations and trusting their parents about the information and like.

00:52:46.302 --> 00:53:10.492
So I think that us having those conversations as parents, as aunties, as whatever, helps develop this really healthy view of sex and make sure that we're not getting people out there using bad video like well, not just, not just maybe a oil, but like but I mean, you see, like the reels of like the ER guys who are like don't put that there, don't put that there.

00:53:10.780 --> 00:53:17.730
You know, like when we have these healthy conversations, we're having less and less of people putting things where they shouldn't go.

00:53:34.565 --> 00:53:34.744
I had.

00:53:34.744 --> 00:53:39.367
It's not my story, but I heard of somebody in the industry that was told that somebody was using a pine cone.

00:53:39.367 --> 00:53:43.487
You just didn't know and you were making those decisions.

00:53:43.487 --> 00:53:44.989
It makes me so sad.

00:53:44.989 --> 00:54:13.858
I don't have kids, but I would be buying my kid a silicone grade, medical grade toy around puberty age, not only for them to get to know themselves and their body, but also as a deterrent from like I got to go out there and seek pleasure or whatever, because I guarantee you if you're taking care of yourself, you're not worried about some boy making stupid you know moves at you because you're like no, no, I can go home and take care of that.

00:54:13.858 --> 00:54:21.030
But I know I'm not the norm in that, but I think you know that's where I would really love to see the shift.

00:54:21.030 --> 00:54:22.563
If parents were like you know what?

00:54:22.563 --> 00:54:31.853
This is a better option for you, a safer option I'm introducing it to you and, you know, helping you figure this out without having to be fully involved.

00:54:31.853 --> 00:54:33.105
We all got here the same way.

00:54:34.760 --> 00:54:35.802
So you were talking about.

00:54:35.802 --> 00:54:40.773
When you were kind of talking about the different lines, you were talking about one that's kind of geared towards younger people.

00:54:40.773 --> 00:54:42.768
Is there like space at all?

00:54:42.768 --> 00:54:48.309
And this would be a really difficult thing and I can imagine it would be very difficult because of age restrictions and everything else.

00:54:48.309 --> 00:54:52.688
But I mean, is there room in that for, like learning toys?

00:54:52.688 --> 00:55:04.097
I mean, or I don't really know exactly how to phrase this or where my mind is going with it, but I mean I feel like if someone, when I was much younger, had really given me the option to learn it, it wouldn't have taken me until I was much younger, had really given me the option to learn it.

00:55:04.097 --> 00:55:09.407
It wouldn't have taken me until I was 25, 26 to have my first orgasm, you know.

00:55:10.730 --> 00:55:17.070
So you are not alone in that first orgasm being elusive and actually having it at 25 or 26.

00:55:17.070 --> 00:55:19.981
I mean, I've heard stories of people much beyond that.

00:55:19.981 --> 00:55:36.851
We actually got a letter many years ago from a gentleman who was I think he was in his seventies and his wife was also up there that she was able to have her first orgasm ever with a Levi, one of the C shapes I think it was like the two or three at the time, which is crazy.

00:55:36.851 --> 00:55:55.512
But the Womanizer brand last year did a cross country tour where we stopped in I think it was 13 different markets and we had a really cool truck that was full of education where you walked in and you learned about erogenous zones and different ways, like the Wienermobile.

00:55:56.300 --> 00:56:04.242
It was the Wienermobile, but it was Womanizer Mobile and it was erogenous zones and how to stimulate them and why stimulating them feels good.

00:56:04.242 --> 00:56:17.817
And then we went into the anatomy of the body and it was like find the clitoris and you opened up all these little doors and you just kept going deeper and deeper and deeper and then we had a really cool wall where people could write empowering messages on a white board.

00:56:17.817 --> 00:56:23.789
We had some videos going and then we had product in there and in every single market that we stopped in.

00:56:23.789 --> 00:56:29.934
We started in Boston, we went down through Columbus, we're in Chicago, texas, heading on over to LA.

00:56:30.757 --> 00:56:37.844
Every single market that we went to we had parents in there and they're like gosh, we just really wish you could do something like this at schools.

00:56:37.844 --> 00:56:42.134
And no way, no, how is that ever going to happen at a high school?

00:56:42.134 --> 00:56:45.387
But what I would love to see is like could we do a college tour?

00:56:45.387 --> 00:56:56.393
Because that's the age where, if you could get people really invested in knowing how to understand, a, their own pleasure and then, b, how to deliver pleasure.

00:56:56.393 --> 00:57:00.210
We had a couple of groups of men that came through the womanizer track.

00:57:00.210 --> 00:57:09.253
They're like we know this isn't for us, we're like, but what you're going to learn today is going to make you very popular with the ladies on campus.

00:57:09.253 --> 00:57:19.967
So you know, I do think that there is opportunities for education out there and we, our companies, hope to be at the forefront of continuing to make those opportunities available.

00:57:21.451 --> 00:57:25.108
That makes me think of when I was getting into the sex toy industry.

00:57:25.108 --> 00:57:28.969
It suddenly became my job in our family to be the one who does the talk.

00:57:28.969 --> 00:57:41.612
But what I used to have to tell my niece and nephew is just know that you know way more than almost everybody else and some people's parents might not like to know the stuff that you know.

00:57:41.612 --> 00:57:42.420
They might get upset.

00:57:42.420 --> 00:57:43.302
So you have to be careful.

00:57:43.302 --> 00:57:46.588
Don't be the person at school giving out all the information.

00:57:46.588 --> 00:57:49.414
Just don't overshare too much.

00:57:49.414 --> 00:57:54.181
Because I shared everything with them with the appropriate language, and their parents appreciated it.

00:57:54.181 --> 00:57:56.849
They pretty much pushed them to come talk to me about it.

00:57:56.889 --> 00:57:58.760
But it shouldn't be this mysterious.

00:57:58.760 --> 00:58:00.543
It's like we all got here the same way.

00:58:00.543 --> 00:58:06.472
We all came from a vagina and there shouldn't be any shame in that.

00:58:06.472 --> 00:58:08.414
Oh, I want to tell you guys one more thing.

00:58:08.414 --> 00:58:18.320
The weirdest thing I've ever heard anybody use for pleasure for a woman is she used to use, remember, those old phone cords that were like really tightly wound on her landlines.

00:58:18.320 --> 00:58:23.864
She used that kind of like, like if you were going to put it like a towel between your legs, like back and forth.

00:58:23.864 --> 00:58:25.809
She used it back and forth over her clitoris.

00:58:25.809 --> 00:58:32.240
It's really stiff, hard sawn cord.

00:58:32.240 --> 00:58:33.063
I was like, oh goodness, here's a bullet.

00:58:33.083 --> 00:58:33.686
Or try the shower massager.

00:58:33.686 --> 00:58:34.509
It's always a guaranteed orgasm.

00:58:34.509 --> 00:58:35.271
People have to get creative.

00:58:35.271 --> 00:58:43.869
Certain parts of the country there's not an adult store right around the corner and there's going to be a certain percent of the population that, even if there was, they would never set foot in there.

00:58:43.869 --> 00:58:46.273
So phone cord.

00:58:46.393 --> 00:58:48.195
Wow, I know, isn't that crazy.

00:58:48.195 --> 00:58:49.284
I was like, how did you even think of that?

00:58:49.284 --> 00:58:58.447
But I always said, you know, when people who are home alone and horny are super creative, so creative, it's like, wow, I mean, I've thought of some things myself.

00:58:58.447 --> 00:58:59.704
I was like, yeah, this will work.

00:58:59.704 --> 00:59:08.003
But a lot of people are into these.

00:59:08.003 --> 00:59:09.869
I notice a lot of toys are talking about like grinding against things.

00:59:09.889 --> 00:59:10.530
There's like these little pads.

00:59:10.530 --> 00:59:12.175
That's kind of a big thing now seems like it's kind of trending, as they say.

00:59:12.175 --> 00:59:12.858
So, um, trending, definitely.

00:59:12.858 --> 00:59:32.239
Grinding pads are a are a big deal, and there's everything from, like you know, pads that are flat, that you can sit on a surface or on a thigh, but they're getting to be some really kind of cool smaller shapes that I think are really going to be great between two bodies while they're having explorative play in other areas.

00:59:32.239 --> 00:59:39.172
So I think that is definitely a hot trend that we're going to continue to see more products landing in that space.

00:59:39.913 --> 00:59:40.755
I've been wondering about that.

00:59:40.755 --> 00:59:47.125
When you guys make toys for men and stuff, are you guys thinking about making anything that's anal for anal play?

00:59:48.347 --> 00:59:50.271
um, yes, we will be doing that.

00:59:50.331 --> 01:00:00.186
Yes, stay tuned on that one cool, I would, yeah, I would love to know, like it, what you can share of like what's coming, like what are, what's the new technology?

01:00:00.186 --> 01:00:02.030
You mentioned a little bit about the arc wave.

01:00:02.030 --> 01:00:08.992
Um, would love to know a little bit more about that or any other products that are going to be kind of exposure to the market.

01:00:09.460 --> 01:00:13.210
So with the Womanizer I gave you a little wink, wink, nudge, nudge.

01:00:13.210 --> 01:00:25.851
The product that will be coming out in March is going to be called Enhance, and Enhance will be the very first clitoral-only pleasure air and vibration product.

01:00:25.851 --> 01:00:34.422
So you can turn it on and use it as pleasure air and turn it on, use it as a vibrator, or you turn on both pleasure air and vibration at the same time.

01:00:34.422 --> 01:00:44.226
And we merged the rumble and we vibe with pleasure air so you get like the best of both brands in one clitoral device.

01:00:44.226 --> 01:00:55.686
So orgasm rate on that through our testing group, as well as anybody internally who has been able to use it, very, very, very high.

01:00:55.686 --> 01:00:57.510
So that's exciting.

01:00:57.510 --> 01:01:12.474
And so then, with what's coming from Artwave, we will have a pleasure air product for penis owners, because we know people do take womanizer product and use it on the heads of penises or on perineum or testicles.

01:01:12.474 --> 01:01:21.650
So we will have a stroker for that which will allow people to kind of just like set the toy and do little micro strokes and let the air work the magic.

01:01:21.650 --> 01:01:30.592
It's a little bit of a different journey for a penis owner because they're so innately trained to do like these big giant strokes right.

01:01:30.592 --> 01:01:32.485
So this is kind of like a set it and forget it.

01:01:32.485 --> 01:01:38.382
Maybe you're holding your phone watching a movie or something like that, eating your Doritos whatever news that works for you.

01:01:38.382 --> 01:01:55.697
And then there will also be a prostate play toy that we hope is going to have technology in it that will allow them to potentially link to sites where they can also watch some movies as well too.

01:01:55.697 --> 01:01:57.025
So stay tuned on that.

01:01:57.179 --> 01:02:05.873
I don't know 100% if that's going to happen, but that's in talks, in tops and then down the road with Levide as we roll into the end.

01:02:05.873 --> 01:02:16.449
Towards the end of the year there will be the new version of Chorus coming out, which is a little bit and have a little bit more bulbous, clitoral shape to it, which will be great.

01:02:16.449 --> 01:02:22.829
It's going to be flatter, a little bit broader and, for the first time ever, it's going to have three motors in it.

01:02:22.829 --> 01:02:35.548
So there will be two motors in that Platoro arm Hello, buckle up, my friends and then one motor in the internal arm and, of course, through the app and the remote, you'll be able to control which motors you're getting to feel.

01:02:35.548 --> 01:02:38.730
So there's lots of exciting things coming, that's awesome.

01:02:39.161 --> 01:02:40.143
Oh, I'm so excited.

01:02:40.143 --> 01:02:42.592
2025.

01:02:42.592 --> 01:02:45.608
We've needed something to look forward to in 2025,.

01:02:45.608 --> 01:02:47.246
Kim, you're giving us life here.

01:02:49.157 --> 01:02:49.460
Thank you.

01:02:49.460 --> 01:02:51.286
I love that I can deliver the hope.

01:02:51.286 --> 01:02:53.639
We need it so desperately.

01:02:54.402 --> 01:02:58.228
This is like the best way to, one of the healthiest ways to relieve stress, right.

01:02:58.608 --> 01:02:59.331
Exactly.

01:02:59.331 --> 01:03:17.865
We ask every single guest that comes on to our show what is their favorite sex toy or sexual aid?

01:03:17.965 --> 01:03:19.286
So I'm curious, kim, how about you?

01:03:19.286 --> 01:03:28.070
To dial it down to one is super hard, but I'm going to tell you, it's a classic that I just cannot replace.

01:03:28.070 --> 01:03:37.034
I go old school with the touch, this little baby, the shape, the squishiness factor, the flat side.

01:03:37.034 --> 01:03:41.777
It's got all the things, all the things that I need.

01:03:41.777 --> 01:03:43.757
It looks perfectly sized.

01:03:43.878 --> 01:03:52.849
Yeah, and you can see the indentation where it would kind of like hold your clit, like in a little cup shape.

01:03:52.849 --> 01:03:55.597
It's a little cradle, little cradle of love.

01:03:55.597 --> 01:03:56.501
Love it.

01:03:56.501 --> 01:04:03.552
You can use it with a partner too, it looks yeah, great for partner play, great for nipple play, great for like under your perineum.

01:04:03.552 --> 01:04:08.170
I always tell people this is a really great place to start Love it.

01:04:08.170 --> 01:04:08.630
What's it called?

01:04:08.630 --> 01:04:10.663
So it's called the TouchX.

01:04:10.963 --> 01:04:15.985
Okay, touch, I've never tried that one, but it looks too small for me.

01:04:15.985 --> 01:04:18.661
Anyway, I don't think it was just a mean as far as size and reaching my clitoris.

01:04:18.661 --> 01:04:21.525
But, ashley and Mirth, is there anything else?

01:04:21.525 --> 01:04:23.047
You want to chat with Kim before?

01:04:23.088 --> 01:04:23.648
we wrap this up.

01:04:23.648 --> 01:04:26.172
No, I just want to thank you so much for your time.

01:04:26.172 --> 01:04:31.402
This is exactly what I was hoping we would have with you.

01:04:31.402 --> 01:04:44.021
We've been trying to schedule a time to meet and talk with you and just learning about these products and so grateful that you've sent those our way to try out and just really appreciative of the conversation.

01:04:44.021 --> 01:04:45.623
So thank you, I'm going to try out and just really appreciative of the conversation, so thank you.

01:04:45.643 --> 01:04:51.902
I'm going to second that and also really excited about our future docking station and to try enhance.

01:04:51.902 --> 01:05:13.829
But I love it's been really great to get to talk to you and meet you and hear about all of the exciting things that are coming, especially for men, because it's really like I love all of our toys, Love, love them, and I know that that's that's an area that really I think there could be a lot more focus and, and so I think my husband will be excited about that someday too, 100%.

01:05:13.869 --> 01:05:14.831
Yes, kim, we're so grateful.

01:05:14.831 --> 01:05:17.181
Thank you so much, and thank you for this conversation today.

01:05:17.181 --> 01:05:18.163
It was a lot of fun.

01:05:18.163 --> 01:05:18.804
I knew it would be.

01:05:18.804 --> 01:05:20.427
I'm so happy that we can make it happen.

01:05:20.427 --> 01:05:24.793
So thank you and tell your boss, thank you as well, and we'll be talking with you soon.

01:05:24.793 --> 01:05:26.494
And I'm going to wrap it up, murph.

01:05:26.494 --> 01:05:27.115
What else should we tell?

01:05:27.199 --> 01:05:29.143
them.

01:05:29.143 --> 01:05:34.592
We need to tell you that you need to like, subscribe, share, write us a review.

01:05:34.592 --> 01:05:40.650
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01:05:40.650 --> 01:05:41.293
We don't do that.

01:05:41.452 --> 01:05:42.295
We don't play that game.

01:05:43.336 --> 01:05:57.063
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01:05:58.806 --> 01:06:00.804
Alright, y'all For today.

01:06:00.804 --> 01:06:02.047
Let's just say see you later.

01:06:02.047 --> 01:06:03.663
Alligator, after a while.

01:06:03.663 --> 01:06:04.266
Crocodile.

01:06:06.019 --> 01:06:08.789
Sending hugs ladybugs, Toodles my little poodles.

01:06:14.693 --> 01:06:16.340
Thanks, Kim.

01:06:16.340 --> 01:06:17.523
Thank you so much.

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