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Hi, welcome to Big Sexy Chat.
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I'm Crystal, I'm Murph.
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Hi, welcome back to Big Sexy Chat.
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I'm here with my co-host, Murph, and my name is Crystal.
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We're so happy to have you and to be back on track for our fun and favorite, loving, most exciting podcast.
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Murph, what's going?
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on.
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Hey, it's been a while since we've done just a standard kind of format, so we've got some stuff to catch up on.
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I am not sure if you have seen Bridgerton.
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Let's talk about it.
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I've seen four episodes but I want to hear all about it.
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I'm loving it so far, but I haven't seen any perfect breasts yet, but I'm waiting.
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Yes, so Nicola Coughlin, she is the star of this series and she got interviewed, or she was interviewed by someone on the press junket and basically they asked her about her body type and her response was just absolutely beautiful.
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She said basically like oh, you mean being a member of the Perfect Breast Club?
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Which they are, the Perfect Breast Club.
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Like holy, yeah, like fantastic.
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Yeah, and make those assholes explain what they mean Exactly.
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When someone says a racist joke, you're like I'm sorry, I don't understand what do you mean?
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Can you explain it to me?
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And they're like oh, I'm a fucking idiot.
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That's what she did to them, right?
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That's exactly what she did to them.
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It was a good like oh, yeah, yeah, no, my type, my body type, yeah, you mean the perfect breasts.
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Yes, it was so perfectly sarcastic.
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Um, you know, that's has brought up a lot of conversation.
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Uh, in our community there's been a lot of talk about, um, do we perceive Nicola as plus size?
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First of all, um, there was somebody actually on the internet comparing her to like the Kate Winslet of the Titanic time and how people were like, oh, kate Winslet is so brave for you know, and it's like Nicola and Kate Winslet, both at that time were what?
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Maybe a size 10?
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Maybe, I mean, it's really, it's not what I would define as plus size.
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Now, is it something that's very uncommon that you see in mainstream media?
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A thousand percent, but that's not in my eyes and I'm curious what your opinion is.
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But I'm hearing all these people be like oh well, you know, they're not allowing this or that, or they're doing this or that because of her size, and it's like well, I mean, we don't usually see someone that has a very round face, you know, and so that is very different from you.
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You know, the standard kind of starlet that you see these days, but nothing about her.
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I mean, she wears skims, she's one of the new representatives for skims and that's a very well, it's a trash you know thing, because it's Kardashian as far as I'm concerned, but that's like they go up to size 12, if that you know.
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So it's like.
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So we're not really talking about somebody who's you know reached some Mecca of quote unquote, plus size you know being displayed.
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I was wondering if we knew her size, but that that does help explain it a little bit.
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So in the fashion world you know, if you're oversized for you're considered plus size and then when you are actually plus size which I think most people define as 14 and higher then that's considered plus size and below that is considered straight size.
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Don't ask me why straight or plus.
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It's so strange, but we all know Hollywood, you know you're basically people trying to be a zero, a size zero or double zero, and she definitely is not that.
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But she's definitely not fat in my opinion.
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My opinion.
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She just is a little bit shorter, on the shorter side of life.
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She has honking boobs and when you're shorter it makes you look sort of fat.
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She has a cute cherubic face.
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It's very adorable and beautiful and I have a girl crush on her.
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But I know, like zillions of people do.
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And, yeah, maybe she can be considered a small fat, but not as far as fashion is considered.
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The fashion rules, rules, that is anyway.
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Yeah, and I I think there's there's some, you know, uh up in arms, uh within the community, especially thinking, you know terms of like they didn't, um, move forward with.
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I guess there were extra scenes that were filmed, um sex scenes specifically, and they didn't, you know, those got the cut from the actual series and so people are like they're not showing as much sex because she's plus size.
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I really don't agree with that.
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After watching the first season of Bridgerton which, hello, that's the reason all of us got into this because every scene had sex in it, which was incredible.
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All of us got into this because every scene had sex in it, which was incredible.
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But ever since then there has been less and less and less sex.
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Just in general, like I felt, like the second episode or the second series about the brother.
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I love the characters, but I was like when are they going to hook up?
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And it wasn't until like the very, very end and it was only one scene.
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So it was just like this was such a letdown.
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And then, with Queen Charlotte, there wasn't you know as much.
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So it's like we get here to this season three and it's hyped like crazy because it's not somebody you normally see on screen in a sexual manner.
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Thank you, american public, for making that happen.
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But we're trying to make those changes and so we start to see these options and then people get super upset because they're like, well, you're doing this because she's plus size and you don't want to show her body, and I don't think that's accurate.
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I think they want to reach a more general, broad audience and have people be into the romance of the stories for Bridgerton and not so much the sex.
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So I think it's one of those like, let's kind of um, play it down so that we can get a larger audience.
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And then those people that want to go back and read the books.
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That has lots of smut in it and I love the word dirty.
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I love it dirty girl murphy yeah right, I'm hoping we're gonna have someone on here very soon talking about fat girls and fiction and you know so, um.
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But yeah, it's like if you can get this audience, then they'll go back and read the books the one they're old enough, you know, or their parents allow them, or whatever.
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But I really feel like this series has been kind of the standard of Bridgerton series.
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I don't think it's something that they're doing because of her weight at all.
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I think it's just that they want a broader audience, and you can't do that with Smut.
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How can I get access to Bridgerton Uncut Like?
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Is there a bloopers reel?
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I want to see it all.
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Seriously.
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I'm like let's put those scenes back in there.
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I want to know what's up bridgerton x-rated, r-rated that's right, the nc-17 bridgerton.
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Now I will say, this series featured something I was not expecting to see but was glad to see there was some polyamory themes to it.
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And so that was interesting.
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I was very excited to see that they didn't go into depth with that either.
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You know, it's very much just like kissing and touching, which is what you saw a lot of between Nicola and Luke, but you know, Luke.
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But you know it's very much a different approach than what they normally do and it's been kind of a progressive series, I would say, like it starts to talk about some things in this series, especially about like the patriarchy and just the plight of women and like having the option for freedom and what does your voice mean, and those types of things.
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So I was like all right, I'm liking this.
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you know poly stuff happening and where we're going with this I want to tell bridgerton people pump the brakes on this whole idea of making it more generic.
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No, go lean into the sacks.
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That's what sells.
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We all know that.
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Uh, also sidebar, our lovely producer just confirmed that nicola's size is size 10.
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Size 10,?
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Yeah, and she's probably really under tall right.
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She's not real super tall.
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She's got to be, yeah, fairly, but she's I love it.
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I love that.
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You know she's got like some very round features and features that you don't see.
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But yeah, I'm just, I really get stuck on that Like um, but uh, yeah, I'm just, I really get stuck on that, like we're not really talking plus size here and if, if y'all aren't okay with her, like you're really not gonna be okay with me.
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We're fucked.
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We're so screwed.
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Yeah, she's adorable, though.
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I love her whatever size she is, but I know the world is making it um a little bit intense, I guess, about her.
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What else has she been in?
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Why do I know her already?
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What do I know her from?
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just no irish show daryl what's it called, uh darby girls, or yeah, darby girls, dairy or dary, I forget, it was so cute though, yeah, I did, I didn't watch it, uh, but you know, I think that she's um, I think she's a great actress and she's.
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She's kind of like a political activist too.
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She just raised a ton of money for palestine, which is amazing.
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Um, you know to be on this tour and like wearing the pins so that people have to see it you know, and they, because they're the media is really big on like oh, we don't want you to, you know, wear anything that has that.
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So I think she's done really great.
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I think she's got a fantastic career ahead of her.
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I love when people use their platform too.
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It's like, yeah, get it, you, take advantage of it while you have it, because we all know when you're in Hollywood, once you're like over 40, you're done.
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But she's doing some really cool work out there.
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I would love to see her as the host on SNL.
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Oh yeah, That'd be fun.
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She might this year because she's been, so she's like.
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She's like the media darling right now isn't she, she is yeah she really is, and so the book is supposed to be naughtier oh, they're much naughtier, oh yeah I guess there's a second carriage scene in the book that did not make the cut of the show.
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Oh, yeah, I, yeah, I like them.
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Do you ever listen to books on tape or whatever Audiobooks?
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Oh yeah, it's my favorite.
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Yes, much easier for me and my ADHD brain to listen to a book than read it anymore.
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So it's my freaking hysterectomy.
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Seriously, I'll start reading and then I'll be like wait, what did I just?
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Read I got to go back and I go back, and then I go back, and then I'm already squirreling again.
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So yeah, audio books are my, are my way to go anymore.
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But there definitely going to be a few more episodes of Bridgerton, I mean seasons of Bridgerton, I think so they really did put a bow on it, though If they wanted to be like we're done At least I felt like that I mean, you could definitely get more in depth into the characters.
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I've heard a lot of people calling for the Bridgerton mom to be featured.
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She's a widower.
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And, like in this story, things kind of progress, and so I don't know.
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I think you know there's definitely a lot of opportunity there, but if they wanted to, they technically could have been done after this season, Please.
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Sondra, we need you.
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You know, shonda, we need you.
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And off the air, whatever you want to call it.
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Murph and I were talking about at 56, when I was young, tv shows had 23 episodes.
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This eight-episode crap is not for me.
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I don't like it.
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I was watching Fallout it was only eight episodes.
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We're watching Acolyte it's only eight episodes.
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Like, what is the deal with eight episodes?
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I need more.
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Oh, the Last of Us, I need more.
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I need a whole season, 23 episodes, please.
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The good old days, right, exactly when there would be so much content, we didn't even know what to do with it.
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And now it's like, oh, we're going to break it up into two months, like my into two months.
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Like my husband was like, wait, I thought that bridgerton already came out and I was like, yes, but it was only four episodes.
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And now it's like now it's june and then they're going to release the last four.
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And he was like this is the dumbest thing ever.
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I don't want to hear any more about it.
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Yeah, I'm with james.
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Is there anything else about bridgerton?
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We should bring up that.
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We uh, I just love any of the, any of the um scenes with the modiste and the clothes and stuff it just, I really enjoyed this season just for the character development and like it was very much a redemption story for a lot of different players in this series, and so it was nice to see that all come together at the end.
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And I think that's why I was so surprised that there was not a post-marriage sex scene, because I was like we're doing all this really great character development, all right, like it's going to happen and we're going to see like all this, like amazing, and then it didn't happen and I was just like wait, the series is over, wait, wait, nobody.
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No, I didn't agree to this, like whoa whoa, whoa, whoa no, I didn't agree to this.
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Like whoa, whoa, whoa.
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How about the two sisters?
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They didn't really realize that that sex means like penis in your vagina and they're, you know in that era for sure that was like allowed, but they didn't even know.
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Like, yeah, well, we're not doing it correctly.
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Yeah, no, you're not doing it correctly.
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Where that's so funny.
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Yeah, yeah, I love it and yeah, I hope, I hope for more bridgerton.
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One thing I noticed because I hadn't.
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It took me a little while to get caught up.
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The first episode just left me smiling.
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I was like, oh, I miss this.
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It's nice to watch something that's more fluffy and light and, just like you know, the world is so dark right now.
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It's just like, oh, I was like smiling all day the next day.
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I was like I have to watch the next second episode.
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So now I'm through the first four.
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Now I got to watch the last four, so good, and I one thing I really appreciated about this season was the, the relationship between the two main characters, because it, yes, it, it was very sexy, but it was very much about like I want to appreciate and love this aspect of you in all these different ways and it was very vocal, especially coming from a man like um the the things that women want to hear of.
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Like I'm consumed by the thought of you like that's fucking sexy as hell.
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Like you know, like that's the kind of stuff that gets girls charged up, and so it's like okay, like they spent a lot of really solid time having that happen, and so I think that that really made you want the sex stuff even more, because it was just like I'm melting over here.
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I can only imagine what it's like having him breathing on your neck while he's saying this oh man, put your penis in my mouth now right, the hock to a girl's uh pretty popular right now.
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Honestly, it just shows us in bridgerton you're gonna get the hock to we talk about our next subject in the article in the guardian I wanted to say a bridgerton, uh, more fat sex.
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B to the world more fat sex, more fat characters having sex, because, guess y'all, we have a lot of sex too.
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And then, c, I wanted to remind people that they can also watch us on YouTube.
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We're trying to get our YouTube channel in shape, so make sure you check out Big Sexy Chat on YouTube.
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But, murph, let's talk about the article in the Guardian article in the Guardian.
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Yeah, so it's beach day, and it's beach day in New York which means everybody goes to the beach right, yep?
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Well, it is for fat people, because they have fat beach day where you can go to the go to the ocean, lay on the sand, play in the water with a whole group of fat folk and talk about less intimidating, talk about building community, talk about all these amazing things.
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And the Guardian has not always been a news organization that puts fat people in any sort of positive light, and so I was very like I'm not clicking on this article.
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Um, cause there's there's this gorgeous fat girl, jordan Hall.
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Uh, who's the model?
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She's?
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If you see the article, she's laying out on the um sand in a two piece and just fucking gorgeous.
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And I'm like this is gonna, they're going to shit all over this.
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Like I'm just in my brain, right, right.
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This like I'm just in my brain, right, right.
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So I clicked on it and I'm actually reading through and olivia empson, who wrote it, um, wow, kudos to you.
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Like this was a really well written article about the situations that fat people deal with in public and like needing a safe space and having an opportunity.
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Like it's a day y'all we're saying, like we want a day to go to the beach and feel safe with each other and just have a nice time at the beach.
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Like I don't think people most people understand what it is like, as a fat person, to be out in public and not feel like attacked when you go to do something as simple as go to the beach feel like attacked when you go to do something as simple as go to the beach.
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Yeah, so true.
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I want to just share everybody's um jordan's ig with everyone.
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If you want to see someone who does not get a fuck, you need to follow her.
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It's j.
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You know I shouldn't say her, I actually don't know her pronouns.
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You should follow them, their their instagram is j-o-r-d-A-L-L-E-N Hall, jord Allen Hall, and yeah, she's really fun to follow on Instagram and yeah, I love it.
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You know that's that when you see someone like her, that's when you hear all the people say, oh, you're so brave, you're so brave.
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Look at you.
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Where do you get your confidence?
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That's exactly it.
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I think that was why it was so nice to read this article, because it was like people are needing community right now and people need to feel safe, and so there's more and more of these pop-up events happening, like chunky dogs where people go get together and go to the swimming pool.
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Um, you know, there's lots of different things that are starting to happen nationally, um, but for, like new york, this is like new york is starting to become very progressive.
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I mean, tigers did all that work to make sure that size acceptance was, you know, not something you could get fired for a protected class exactly so.
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It's like there's there's things happening and like you don't really think of that.
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When you think of new york, you think of like high fashion and like people smoking cigarettes walking everywhere and just like, yeah, like everything's super going everything's very black.
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Yeah, it's so stereotypical right, but you know it's like to hear that there's um community and spaces being created where people are really um, not only encouraged to attend, but um just like or to celebrate.
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It know, like it's very rare that that sort of thing happens and this article talked about.
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You know how these different pop up events are really, you know, starting to change the way that people perceive when you go out.
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Most of the time you're going to get fat shamed in one way or another, with some microaggression or something very blatant, but it's when you go out in a large group of people it's very unlikely that someone is going to become aggressive with you or say some sort of thing, and so this really does create that kind of safety in numbers sort of aspect, which is nice.
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I love that this is happening a lot on the West Coast and I see I get a lot of these people in my feed where they're like plus bus, they're having another chunky dunk or whatever they call it and they all go to the beach together and all over the West Coast.
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I see that happening all the time in Portland and Seattle and Nevada.
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Las Vegas has quite a few of them.
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Pool parties, and then we can't forget about the pool party in Shrill with Aidy Bryant.
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I know it wasn't the beach, but all those beautiful fatties in their bikinis and bathing suits dancing and frolicking.
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And we don't ever get to frolic, ma'am, we just don't.
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I know, and I love that.
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You see that it was very clear in that article.
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There were a couple pictures and stuff where it's like, okay, this is exactly what we should be demonstrating to folks of, like, we're going to change the culture, then it has to be something where people feel safe to go out in a two piece and not be made fun of or, you know, be attacked or that sort of thing.
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And so I really I love the article, I loved how the photography, I just I was, I was so surprised.
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I was like, okay, I'm actually going to share an article from the Guardian, like, yeah, Would you share the actual title?
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Do you have it with you, or do you have it nearby?
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Or we could put it in the show notes too.
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I mean, I have it, let me grab it while we're sitting here talking.
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I'm going to say you know, I don't know about you, but I find myself that I'm often the biggest person in the room or the biggest person at the event, unless I go to a VAT event, and it can be a little intimidating.
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I've gotten, I got my chops now, but it sucks.
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It can be overwhelming.
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Absolutely.
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The article is called New York's Fat Beach Day.
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Gives Plus Size People a Space to Be Themselves.
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Love it.
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And it's from the Guardian.
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Yeah, so New York, new York's Fat Beach Day.
